6 trends you absolutely must test this summer

Just because you are always testing more sexual experiences does not mean you enjoy more. But still, it can help!

If you have put on your Bircks' and have chosen the sunscreen that will accompany your vacation, it's time to list the sexual experiences that will punctuate your summer.

The goal? Inject a good dose of fun into your intimate life, but also flirt with new pleasures and explore new grounds. And don't panic: just because you're testing new things, alone or in pairs, doesn't mean you end up in awkward and completely crazy situations.

Sometimes, a simple side step is enough to break the routine and change your sex life ... Or just have fun! We have therefore identified for you the trendy experiences of the moment. It's up to you to draw, it's up to you to play.

Foreplay , penetration and ejaculation . It was the world before. By dint of making love as under Berlusconi , women have come to consider penetration as the key practice of sexual encounters. Even if it means getting bored dry in the sack and forgetting his own enjoyment. This is where a serious update needs to be made.

The experience to be tested . We take up the challenge with our partner at least once in the summer, since sex without penetration is sex anyway. Or even better. Like you, your boyfriend has hands, a tongue, and plenty of other tools besides his penis to use. So let's get started: it will be for him to focus on new gestures to make you climb to 7th heaven. Because concretely, you can enjoy anywhere if the erogenous zone is well stimulated: neck, breasts, ass, feet, vulva and anything you want to be bitten, licked or caressed. Objective: To enjoy! And start again without worrying about the rise of sir, for once. Challenge accepted?

If daddy porn has never really turned you on (blame it on big kikis and two-ball scenarios): it's time to get into audio porn , which is definitely more feminist and trendy. Like meditation , these programs guide you and give instructions, while letting your erotic imagination weave the scenario of your choice. This is a game-changer!

The experience to be tested. We download the Voxxx or Earousal podcasts (our favorites), and we offer ourselves a moment of totally divine pleasure. Because yes, audio porn is the Little BamBou of the ass: they invite you to take time for yourself and to disconnect. With them, we clear our heads, while letting the voice of the actor unwind the thread of our pleasure. Does he offer to caress you? Does he describe cunnilingus to you ? Does it guarantee that you are hot, very hot? It remains to believe it and lose control. The icing on the cake ? These podcasts boost self-confidence. They will remind you that you are beautiful, good and above all, they will make you cum.

A few years ago, we swore by the vibrating duck , a small erotic accessory likely to make us come big. Today, sex toy manufacturers place the clitoris at the heart of their girl power innovations and deliver all kinds of toys that are both sharp and easy to use that promise quick and powerful orgasms thanks to the clitoral vacuum cleaner. Why deprive yourself, frankly?

The experience to be tested . We order the clitoral vacuum cleaner that everyone talks about at Womanizer, Satifyer, Goliate or even Lelo who have won all the awards for the best sex toy . And we are reassured: if these toys of a new kind are nicknamed " vacuum cleaners ", they do not suck our precious organ but emit waves gently to make its head spin (and make ours spin). For a magical and unforgettable moment, and to multiply the orgasms, we provide ourselves with a lubricant , we stroke each other to get in condition, then we apply the tip of the sextoy on the glans of our clitoris . The machine does the rest ... This does not prevent us from stimulating our erotic imagination and using our free hand to browse the rest of our body.

In 2021, we understood that sexual attraction is not encumbered with gender issues. Why would you be purely heterosexual , after all? Opening your mind to the issue will boost your sex life.

The experience to be tested . If this girl doesn't leave you indifferent, her looks captivates you or her words spellbind you, go for it. The idea is not necessarily to seduce this person to the point of making love with them, but at least to fantasize the project. And concretely: flirt with it . We can support the gaze and wiggle ass like we would with a guy we like, take an interest in her as we would for a sexy target by making the eyes soft and sound interesting. It doesn't matter what we know, or think we know. For an evening, we can break the codes and flirt . Maybe this little game will lead to a memorable kiss (yes), or it will just tickle your mind until you emerge with your next chills. Or just drive your boyfriend crazy with desire ...

We used to say that summer is the season for love and sex galore. As if the bare shoulders rekindled desire and the heat nourished our impulses. But what can also strengthen our sexual energy is abstinence , even short.

The experience to be tested . Just because we're on vacation doesn't mean we have to make love non-stop. Being aware of this already helps to lower the pressure. But it is also an opportunity to slow down your enthusiasm when you want to over-consume your partner. Why do that ? To boil desire like pasta water , and let it express itself in power a few hours or days later. So we decide to enjoy together, to observe each other, to seduce each other, in short, to raise the temperature before meeting in a few hours. And rediscover the passion and the great effusion, as in its beginnings. Too good !

Does the orgasmic divide speak to you? It can be defined as the gap between male and female enjoyment, that is, the fact that women enjoy much less than men. In question ? An overflow of penetrations that satisfies the penis more than the vulva , men who think of their pleasure while discrediting that of their partner , and women who do not defend their orgasm for fear of “ disturbing ”.

The experience to be tested. We think of us. Just for us for once. And we are active! In other words, we rub our clitoris against the pubis of our boyfriend in the middle of a missionary or we take out ten fingers during doggy style to caress each other . It is forbidden to curb one's pleasure in order to be polite. We stay in fifth gear, and when we finally reach orgasm, we enjoy it, damned ! After that, we lie down, sigh with happiness and close our eyes. Monsieur did not enjoy? Pity. But we don't apologize. Because if we start to be “ sorry ”, we fall back into the spiral of guilt. We are not going to apologize for getting off ...

Also discover the new generation of sex toys and our summer quiz to find out if you are (still) a good shot .